May 14th night 2007
Around midnight, the nurse came to administer pain inducer. I
was determined to have a vaginal birth or a natural delivery. She came, she
placed the pain inducers in the birth path and left. Exactly after 2 hours, I
was profusely bed-wetting… With my huge tummy, I hardly could carry myself and
rush to the washroom. I called out my husband, who didn’t have any clue on what
was happening. Neither did I for that matter. Litres and litres of fluids was jus
leaking without my control. Confused, embarrassed – a 26 old lady bed-wetting,
not able to hold or control the flow. Damn, it didn’t occur to both of us, my
water broke and the baby had started to descend…
We frantically rang up the nurse station. She came and asked
me to follow her. Took me into another room, where there were many impendent
mothers waiting for ‘that’ moment… Some crying in pain, some moaning not able
to withstand the contractions… Well, I walked into the room, got on to the
table and allowed the staff to do what they are supposed to do. Fetal heart
beat was good… I recollected from Eric Segal’s ‘Doctors’ how a little indifference
from the care givers there could actually render me or the baby with some
irreversible damage. All I knew was how alert I had to be at that moment. But
still I didn’t know what overall was going on, what was going to happen next!
Within a few minutes, I joined the ladies gang in giving my
voice to the already existing cries. This time, nurse arrived, not at my behest
though, to instruct me not to make noise. ‘Don’t cry, moan, shout, wail. It is
disturbing others’! :D I looked at the clock, it was 2:30 AM. I knew what was
coming. I know from ‘What to expect when you are expecting’ literature that a
prima patient has to survive this pain for 10-14 hours... Contractions became
closely spaced and I felt as if somebody was hitting my lower back spine with a
hammer! Tried to walk around… holding on to the door, clenching my teeth, I
cursed myself for having chosen ‘vaginal birth’. I jus felt ‘this isn’t worth
it. Somebody please do something!’
Right then, looking at my condition, again she came and
asked me to follow her. This time into a lonely room, administered enema,
inducing bowel movement. It was the actual delivery room. I had graduated to
the final stage… It was close to 4 AM. I went inside the toilet and then everybody
forgot about me…
Couple of hours later, the nurse went out and questioned my
husband on my whereabouts! With that question, labour pain shifted to him. :D Both
Chandra ma (my caretaker mom, we hired) and husband panicked. ‘Your wife has
gone somewhere without telling us. Please help us find her!’
I was still sitting on the commode and trying to push the
stools out, lest I wouldn’t qualify for the next phase! Two hours of pushing, I
was exhausted but I was preparing for the next 10 hours of pain and at worst
case, a C-Section. I used all my might, to follow what was told. Never had I been
so meticulous in following something.
Close to dawn, finally, one of the sisters there came in
search of me inside the labour room, rest room. There I was, finally… gave up
passing stools and I thought let me try something else. J Commotion of the missing
patient was going high and they had to allow ‘Chandra ma’ to actually see me so
that the case might be rested. She said ‘Stomach
has gone down. It is going to be over soon’ I didn’t quite believe but I
appreciated the kind words. She did my hair and wiped the sweat and left the
place in concern.
Delivery team of nurses helped me get on to the labour
table. Again, I was at my job of pushing. And then, I sensed agitation among
the nurses. Nurses pleaded, ‘No more pushing. Please don’t push. We are not
ready. Call the doctor. Head is seen. Put her on IV. Bring a towel.’ I didn’t
have much energy to resist anything. At 7 ‘o clock, May 15, 2007, it was over.
I delivered a pink 2.56 kg baby! I didn’t care to know the sex of the baby and
was disappointed to know the weight. I stayed disappointed for atleast 3 years,
thereafter!
